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5/29/2015

birdhouses

I have a deep appreciation for birds. As a young woman I took flying lessons and this increased my awareness of flight and all its wonder. I am one who is constantly looking up when hearing the slightest sound. I enjoy spotting eagles, owls, song birds, towhees, pileated woodpeckers, humming birds and most any other bird in flight or just going about the business of their day.

Because of this deep appreciation we no longer have cats as family pets. For me, cats love a life of outdoor fun. Fun for our last cat included hunting birds. Since the passing of Tinker Bell our garden’s bird population has increased significantly.

In homage to our neighborhood birds, I recently decided to build some birdhouses. Once I figured out which materials I wanted to use, I knew I would need Peter, Carly and Mark for help.

Peter is a gentle, patient, and skilled craftsman. We met recently when he helped with a home improvement project. While getting to know more about Peter, I learned that he loves woodworking. I too loved woodworking in high school but haven’t done much since. I remember what it felt like to take a chunk of wood and work with it as it became something else.

My newest woodworking plan included turning scraps of Carly's childhood swing set into bird houses. I could reuse, reduce, recycle, and remember all the fun we enjoyed together on the swing set, while giving my local birds some new homes. Peter was more than willing to help me hollow out the log scraps from the old swing set. Together we spent a couple hours removing the centers of the play structure logs. He carved with his chainsaw and loaned me his chisel to do the finer detail. Once that was done, all that was left was to design and build.

As a birthday gift to me, Carly and Mark spent much of “my day” designing, gathering the salvage material, and building my ‘new’ bird houses. I can't think of a better gift. The time we spent produced a visual product that reminds me of past time spent together. When I look at these lovely bird houses I get to remember Carly’s childhood swinging and our now shared adulthood building bird houses together as a loving family. For this I am truly grateful.

How do you celebrate your birthday? Can you reduce and reuse something in your life into a project with loved ones? How do you build memories?


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5/22/2015

Calendula grows like crazy in our garden. As a family who loves color, we welcome the bright orange and yellow flowers that fill up the garden, but we still inevitably have to pull this plant out by the bucketful each year before it completely takes over. But maybe this year I will save a few of the extra plants, as calendula leaves offer a wide range of medicinal properties. The many calendula uses for health include treating diaper rash, healing wounds, and helping with side effects of radiation therapy.

Medicinal properties of calendula

There are many types of calendula, but the specific kind that is used medicinally is called Calendula officinalis (commonly known as pot marigold). It has been traditionally used to treat gastrointestinal ulcers, chronic infections, skin problems, wounds, and more.[1] It is known to possess many qualities that allow it to treat a number of conditions; these properties include anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, antiseptic, antioxidant, would healing, and more.[2] There are countless potential calendula uses for your health.

1. Wound healing. Probably the most popular and well-studied of the calendula uses is wound healing. Studies show that it makes wounds heal better and faster by affecting the inflammatory response, activating antioxidant defense mechanisms, promoting formation of collagen, and more. Calendula may help heal burn wounds, surgical sites, and other types of acute injuries.[3-6] Many people use calendula oil in dressings to be put on wounds. There are a variety of topical creams and ointments that you can purchase at natural health stores for wound healing purposes. Find one with calendula oil as an active component and try using it to help anything from sunburns to cuts.

2. Diaper rash. Calendula is also one of the more effective natural diaper rash treatments.[7,8] In one study, calendula ointment was found to be significantly better at decreasing the severity of diaper rash symptoms than aloe vera, another great natural remedy for wounds.[7] Non-toxic and safe to use on the skin, even in babies, topical calendula creams may help you and your baby find relief from this bothersome condition.

3. Side effects from radiation therapy. Patients undergoing radiation therapy often experience a variety of unpleasant and bothersome side effects. Research shows that calendula can reduce some of these side effects, including skin reactions (changes in color, irritation, soreness, etc.) and oral mucositis (swelling, pain, and sores in the mouth).[9,10] For tips on finding a naturopathic oncology doctor, read more here.

4. Gingivitis is characterized by inflammation and infection of the gums, often caused by poor oral hygiene. Because calendula has anti-inflammatory and antibacterial properties, it is not surprising that it can help to treat gingivitis naturally. Researchers found that two ml of calendula tincture in a small amount of water could be used as an effective, anti-gingivitis mouthwash when used in the morning and at night.[11]

Using calendula

To take advantage of these calendula uses, try these options:

  • Try calendula essential oil, which can be used in aromatherapy, applied directly to affected areas, or diluted for use. Try infusing the oil in homemade lotions, face washes, balms, and more.

  • There are many commercially prepared products that contain calendula extract. Look for topical creams, gels, and ointments for skin conditions, wounds, and diaper rash.

  • Try making your own calendula oil. Place the leaves from fresh calendula flowers in a clean glass jar. Allow leaves to wilt slightly before adding olive oil to cover the flowers with about an inch of oil. Cover and let sit for four to six weeks, stirring occasionally. Strain out the flowers, and store your infused oil in a cool, dark place.

  • Drink calendula tea. Buy prepared calendula tea, or make your own by steeping leaves in boiled water.

References

[1] A review on phytochemistry and ethnopharmacological aspects of genus Calendula.

[2] Studies on spasmogenic and spasmolytic activities of Calendula officinalis flowers.

[3] Wound healing activity of flower extract of Calendula officinalis.

[4] Effect of Calendula officinalis cream on achilles tendon healing.

[5] Development of lamellar gel phase emulsion containing marigold oil (Calendula officinalis) as a potential modern wound dressing.

[6] Effect of Calendula officinalis Flower Extract on Acute Phase Proteins, Antioxidant Defense Mechanism and Granuloma Formation During Thermal Burns.

[7] A randomized comparative trial on the therapeutic efficacy of topical aloe vera and Calendula officinalis on diaper dermatitis in children.

[8] Shampoo-clay heals diaper rash faster than calendula officinalis.

[9] Complementary strategies for the management of radiation therapy side effects.

[10] Antioxidant capacity of calendula officinalis flowers extract and prevention of radiation induced oropharyngeal mucositis in patients with head and neck cancers: a randomized controlled clinical study.

[11] Evaluation of Calendula officinalis as an anti-plaque and anti-gingivitis agent.

Chelsea Clark is a writer with a passion for science, human biology, and natural health. She holds a bachelor’s degree in molecular and cellular biology with an emphasis in neuroscience from the University of Puget Sound in Tacoma, WA. Her research on the relationship between chronic headache pain and daily stress levels has been presented at various regional, national, and international conferences. Chelsea’s interest in natural health has been fueled by her own personal experience with chronic medical issues. Her many profound experiences with natural health practitioners and remedies have motivated Chelsea to contribute to the world of natural health as a researcher and writer for Natural Health Advisory Institute.


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5/18/2015

healing 

Most of the time when doing ladder chores around the house, I insist on being Mark's spotter. He often thinks I am being goofy and overprotective. He is steady, has great balance, and is just generally good being up on ladders and even roofs. Me on the other hand, well I am not. My nickname was grub growing up, I often paint half of my arms and outfit along with the rooms I’m painting, and have been know to bike into very stationary hundred year old walls.

On a recent Sunday however I overlooked my more clumsy nature as I climbed up our step ladder in our back yard. I had secured the ladder in the dirt and knew I would not climb very high. Mostly, I was looking forward to checking one more chore off the spring clean up list – removing some strung lights out of a rhododendron. The lights had been attacked by squirrels, who apparently have a disdain for strings of lights running through their homes. Up I went.

Ten minutes into my chore, I over-reached for a branch while I was four feet off uneven ground and ended up tangled up with the now mangled branch and my body – ladder no longer under foot. Being a "can do gal" I tried my best to get up, but failed. After a couple persistent try's I remembered my cell phone in my pocket and promptly called Mark for help.

One trip to the doctor later and I had been awarded my first fracture, my kneecap, just shy of turning fifty five. I was given a handy brace and he and I discussed other ways to encourage my body through a speedy recovery. Over the course of the conversation I made it known I planned to be going into a salt infused float tank, using homeopathics, possibly acupuncture and/or raki. His suggestions further included icing, elevation, calcium, vitamin D, and a multivitamin.

In my weeks of recovery I floated, iced, elevated, went to a rakki master, and added homeopathic, calcium, vitamin D and a multivitamin to my daily routine. When telling a concerned friend about the six week crutches prognosis and the three month recovery she piped up that she had just the cure to help with my speedy recovery. Bridget told me about bone marrow soup that had helped her in the past and offered to bring over two large containers. Wow, was it yummy.

One week later I was back at the doctor and his findings were amazing. We looked at the X-rays together as he concluded the fracture had healed. Although he was scientifically detached from and unconvinced by my more alternative treatment methods he was sure to confirm the power of the mind. My plan was: two more weeks of crutches and/or using a brace for extra strength in the healing, less brace time when I was not on my feet, continued homeopathy, salt infused floating, vitamins, soup, and raki if needed. Five weeks in I am walking without a brace or knee sleeve, I am doing PT and look forward to getting back to my three mile walks in the coming weeks.

I am thankful for the the R and R this lesson has provided as well as the reminder that multiple and often a combination of healing methods makes for quick recoveries.

Can you share your story of healing with others? What practices do you keep when you need to heal? Would it be worth exploring other methods through research?


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5/15/2015

Herbs can be powerful allies for our health and wellness. Many of us are familiar with Echinacea and yarrow as antimicrobials, wild cherry bark for a cough, ginger for nausea, and a host of other herbs used in acute situations to restore health. Herbs can be very effective used in this manner, but herbs also shine when used as daily building and strengthening tonics.

What are Tonic Herbs?

In a previous article I discussed nourishing herbal infusions, which are made from nutrient-rich herbs that are safe to consume on a daily basis, as we do food. In this article I delve into tonic herbs – those herbs which can be consumed daily to enhance vitality, longevity, and energy. We may be familiar with the concept of tonics from Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), wherein they are used “to supplement deficiencies and enhance energy and well-being” [1].

Using Tonic Herbs for Health

Tonic herbs slowly build and strengthen, restoring our body systems to a balanced state, thus supporting optimum function of our physical bodies as well as enhancing our emotional well-being. They reflect the essence of herbalism, which we emphasize in our online herbalism classes – integrating plants into our diets on a daily basis as supportive, building, strengthening allies used as preventative medicine or to heal chronic disease. Hippocrates hit the nail on the head with his oft-cited declaration, “Let food be thy medicine and medicine by thy food.” In recent years as we have linked the sad state of the Standard American Diet to our health struggles, there has fortunately been an increased emphasis on letting food be our medicine. We can focus on the second half of Hippocrates’ mandate and let medicine be our food by supplementing our diets and nourishing our bodies with tonic herbs.

Is important to note that the definition of tonic is somewhat different in TCM and Western Herbalism. In general, eastern tonics are used in the case of deficiency to build or nourish the body, while western tonics are used to improve organ or system function, often through clearing and cleansing [2]. Western tonics do include nurturing, building tonics such as adaptogens (which increase the body’s ability to resist and adapt to stress, be it physical, mental, or emotional) and trophorestoratives (which build strength and function of organs or body systems); but they also include normalizing tonics (which improve organ or system by stimulating function) and blood tonics (which cleanse and detoxify the blood) [2]. This article focuses on the building tonics which treat deficiency and restore function by restoring strength, generating warmth, providing nutrition, and providing moisture [3].

The Herb Safety Scale

One important criteria for tonics is that they have no negative side effects if used appropriately. In terms of safety, it is helpful to consider where various types of herbs fall on a safety continuum scale of 1 to 5 [4].

Nourishing herbs are on the left side of the scale with a safety rating of 1, as they are very safe and can be consumed daily as often as desired with no side effects.

On the right side of the scale are herbs for extreme acute use (also called heroic herbs by herbalist Christopher Hobbs), which have a safety rating of 5. These are herbs that are “strong and highly irritating, causing dramatic changes to occur” with little difference between a therapeutic dose and a toxic dose [5] and thus strong potential for side effects – these must be used only under direction of an experienced herbalist.

In between these extremes are tonic herbs and “specific” herbs. Tonic herbs are gentle and slow stimulants [4], have a wide therapeutic range, and include two types: nourishing tonics that are very safe to take daily over extended periods of time; and stimulating tonics that are safe to take for days to months without side effects if used correctly.

“Specific” herbs are “moderately active stimulants” [5] with a narrower therapeutic range, best for acute use limited to approximately two weeks.

The Herb Safety Continuum Scale

The Herb Safety Continuum Scale

Class of Herb

Safety Rating

Safety Notes

Period of Usage

Examples

Nourishing Herbs

1

No known side effects

As often as wanted, like food

Nettle, oatstraw, chickweed, red clover, alfalfa

Nourishing Tonics

2

Little to no side effect

Daily use over long periods of time

Reishi, burdock, dandelion, holy basil, astragalus, cinnamon, garlic, schisandra berry, raspberry leaf

Stimulating Tonics

3

Possible side effects with improper use

Days to months

Hawthorn, ginseng, licorice, eleuthero, rhodiola, turmeric, ashwagandha, Gingko, ginger, motherwort

Specific Herbs

4

Acute use only

2 to 3 weeks

Goldenseal, myrrh, juniper, usnea 

Heroic Herbs

5

Extreme acute use only under guidance of experienced herbalist

Very limited doses

Foxglove, poke root, lily of the valley

Using Tonic Herbs for Health and Vitality

So what are some tonic herbs, and how can we use them? Tonic herbs can include adaptogens, trophorestoratives, normalizing amphoterics, and alteratives. Tonics can work on one organ or body system or several simultaneously. While it might seem like a good idea to take enough tonics to cover each body system, this could become overwhelming! Including tonic herbs in cooking and making tonic preparations takes some planning, so keep it simple by incorporating just a few into your daily routine.

Consider your areas of weakness in the body - if you struggle with stress or anxiety, choose an adaptogen or a tonic for the nervous system. If you have digestive difficulties, choose a tonic that supports the liver and digestive system. If you have a history of heart disease, choose a cardiotonic. If you are generally healthy and just want to enhance your health and increase energy and longevity, choose an adaptogen to support multiple body systems, or rotate different tonics every few months. Ideally, consume these in or as food (e.g. throw some astragalus or reishi into a soup recipe) or as herbal infusions and decoctions. If your busy life simply does not allow for this, herbal tinctures are also an option.

Immunomodulators for the Immune System 

A strong immune system will fight off daily assaults to our health, and immunomodulators like astragalus root, reishi mushroom, and licorice root help build immunity. These herbs are rich in polysaccharides and saponins, which stimulate the body’s innate immunity [6]. These herbs are also adaptogens, which increase the body’s ability to resist and cope with physical and emotional stress, adapting to the stressor instead of succumbing to it. Additionally, astragalus (Astragalus membranaceous) is tonic to the adrenal glands, heart, lungs, and liver. Reishi (Ganoderma lucidum) is tonic to the liver, is anti-inflammatory, and lowers cholesterol [1], and its nervine action helps relieve anxiety and sleeplessness. Licorice (Glycyrrhiza glabra L.) is tonic to the digestive system and is a powerful antiviral (but should not be taken in high doses or on its own for extended periods as it can raise blood pressure).

turmeric

Turmeric for the Digestive and Musculoskeletal Systems

Efficient digestion and assimilation are paramount for health - a large percentage of the immune system resides in the gut, after all! Turmeric (Curcuma longa) is a warming, carminative, and slightly bitter digestive tonic that kindles digestive fire and promotes healthy digestion by stimulating the production and flow of bile and relieving symptoms of indigestion such as cramping, gas, and bloating. It is also liver-protective, helping to prevent liver disease. It is a powerful anti-inflammatory and can help soothe inflammatory bowel diseases. Its anti-inflammatory and analgesic actions are helpful for maintaining healthy joints, tendons, and ligaments, relieving symptoms of arthritis, and keeping tendons and ligaments flexible. Read more about turmeric and get our spin on the age-old Golden Milk recipe here.

Tonic Herbs for Health: Hawthorn

Hawthorn for the Heart

Hawthorn (Crataegus spp.) is rich in flavonoids and is a well-known cardiac tonic. Hawthorn extract from the berry, leaf, and/or flower is used as a general cardiac tonic, a cardiac trophorestorative, and for cases of angina, high blood pressure, early stages of congestive heart failure, and atherosclerosis [7]. It is a supportive and anti-inflammatory tonic herb for any type of heart-related condition, including helping to heal the heart following a heart attack. Hawthorn berries, leaves, and flowers are also used as calming nervines and are used to heal, open, and protect the energetic heart. Get a lovely hawthorn tea recipe here.

Oats - Using Tonic Herbs for Health and Vitality

Oats for the Nervous System

Oatstraw (Avena sativa), which makes an ideal nourishing herbal infusion due to its rich nutritive profile, is also a great nerve tonic. The rich vitamin B, calcium, and magnesium content in oatstraw and milky oats help soothe, and strengthen nerves. Oatstraw and milky oats are considered one of the best remedies for “feeding” and restoring the nervous system, particularly in times of stress and in the case of nervous system weakness or exhaustion associated with depression [8] overwork, or emotional trauma [9]. Oats also support cardiovascular health by reducing cholesterol,  improving circulation, and reducing blood pressure by elasticizing veins and arteries. Learn more about the health benefits of oats.

Ashwaghanda tonic herb

Ashwagandha for Reproductive Vitality

Ashwagandha (Withania somnifera) translates to “that which has the smell of a horse, as it gives the vitality and sexual energy of a horse” [10]. This name alludes to the root's strong odor as well as to its use to restore strength and vitality, and to improve and enhance sexual drive by gradually lowering stress levels that may inhibit the sex drive. Ashwagandha also enhances endocrine function. In addition to its ability to build libido in men and women, ashwagandha has been shown to improve potency in men [11]. Ashwagandha is also an adaptogen and acts as an immunomodulant. Due to its calming nature, it is also used to relieve anxiety and tension.

For more extensive herbal monographs for these plants and more, join us in The Herbarium, which features some of the most beautiful and complete monographs to date, pulling together traditional herbal wisdom, hands-on experience, and modern scientific research to present a multifaceted description of each herb. We also offer a free herbal blog chock full of informative articles and online herbalism courses designed for students who wish to build their foundation of herbalism knowledge.

References

[1] Winston, D. and Maimes, S. (2007). Adaptogens: Herbs for Strength, Stamina, and Stress Relief

[2] Tierra, L. (n.d.) Herbal Tonics: East and West.

[3]Holmes, P. (1997). The Energetics of Western Herbs, Vol. I, Third Edition.

[4] Maurer, S. (2013). Sacred Plant Medicine Apprenticeship class handouts. Gaia School of Healing and Earth Education.

[5] Hobbs, C. (n.d.) Herbal Medicine: Specific And Tonic Immune Herbs Exploring A Practical System Of Western Herbalism.

[6] Masé, Guido. (2013). The Wild Medicine Solution.

[7] Murray, Michael T. (1995). The Healing Power of Herbs.

[8] Hoffmann, David. (2003). Medical Herbalism.

[9] Hardin, Kiva Rose. (2010). Wild as the Day is Long: The Restorative Medicine of Avena.

[10] Lad V and Frawley, D. (1986). The Yoga of Herbs.

[11] Tierra, M. (n.d.) The Mighty Ashwagandha, Superior Aphrodisiac and Male Fertility Tonic.

Jane Metzger is the Assistant Director at the Herbal Academy of New England, home of the online Introductory Herbal Course and Intermediate Herbal Course. HANE recently released its affordable membership program, fittingly called The Herbarium, featuring one of the most complete plant monograph databases to date. Learn more about all of HANE offerings at Herbal Academy of New England.


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5/11/2015

arthritis-diagram of affected joint

Living with Arthritis: Diminishing the Pain

When pain in my leg, localized in my knee, was diagnosed by my MD as Osteoarthritis, I was not too surprised. I was only 54, which seemed a little young, but it is known that arthritis is genetic and several of my family members had also had the ailment as part of their lives.

Saying No to Pharmaceuticals

So my doctor recommended a prescription only medication used to virtually eliminate the pain and debilitating effects of arthritis. She gave me a free sample to try before I committed to a regular regime. Well, it did help somewhat but to me it wasn’t all that different from ibuprofen. Then I discovered the price…$750 for a 3 month supply. I was floored. I know that this might not be considered too pricey compared to other medications, but it was well beyond by means and arthritis is not a life threatening illness. It does however affect “quality of Life”. So I made the decision to pursue other avenues of healing.

This article deals with remedies for Osteoarthritis, the most common form of arthritis. Arthritis means, simply, inflammation in one or more of the joints. Since it is a chronic condition, in addition to inflammation the cartilage between the joints breaks down. It is amazing to think that there are over 100 different types of arthritis. However, generally people are most familiar with the two most common forms: Osteoarthritis and Rheumatoid. Over 27 million Americans have Osteoarthritis, and 1.3 million have Rheumatoid Arthritis. (Arthritis Foundation, 2015)

Many temporary measures can be utilized to diminish the effects of arthritis:

• Ibuprofen-a non-prescription, readily available medicine that not only relieves pain, but helps to reduce inflammation, Very helpful for arthritis sufferers, but overuse may cause stomach damage.
• Topical ointments and rubs (for example Ben Gay) can provide pain relief for minor aches.
• Ice packs, used regularly, can help diminish swelling.
• Regular exercise that is low impact on the joints, swimming is an excellent choice and also yoga.
• Weight control: carrying extra weight can of course burden several of the major joints.

Looking at these diagrams showing how arthritis affects the joints it makes one realize how arthritis can be so painful. Sometimes Osteoarthritis progresses to the point that the cartilage between the joints breaks down and more drastic measures need to be taken to not only alleviate pain but to stop the disease from have a debilitating affect.

Range of Motion 

Cortisone Shots

Since I developed a limp, and the pain in my leg was pretty much a daily occurrence, I realized I had to take further steps. Through the grapevine, and strong recommendations from friends, I found a very good orthopedist. After meeting with him and discussing several options, I first decided to try cortisone shots. The first shot of cortisone worked very well and I was joyously pain-free for about 5 months. When pain returned, I went pack for another cortisone shot, but this one barely lasted a month. Cortisone shots are helpful, but not good for long term because they can eventually weaken your bones by inhibiting the absorption of calcium.

Gel Injections

I then proceeded to learn about the option of gel injections directly into the joint. This is used to replace lost cartilage. Depending on the individual, this therapy can have wonderful results lasting anywhere from 6 months to 2 years. I went ahead and made the appointment. Then, I started to have second thoughts about the procedure and my long term goals and working with this condition. When I had an eye-opening discussion with both my orthopedist and the Physician’s Assistant they made me realize that you will know when you are ready to try surgery when your “quality of life” is affected by your current condition. That helped me take a good hard look at how it was affecting my life and my lack of mobility; I then took the next step to have Total Knee Replacement. When I asked my doctor if I was postponing the inevitable (surgery) he gently referred to my X-rays and then said yes. No time like the present, I scheduled the surgery as soon as I could.

Total Knee Replacement

Now don’t get me wrong…I did not “jump” right into the decision, it took quite a bit of agonizing and even right up to the day of surgery…I was very frightened. Through many reassurances, and the realization that this is a very common procedure…I survived with flying colors. As with many surgeries, the surgery itself went well, it is the recovery afterwards that it the long hard climb. As of this writing, I am in the midst of 6 to 8 weeks of Physical Therapy.

I am currently working on achieving the sought after Range of Motion.

I am making great progress and I feel confident that I made the right decision to drastically improve my mobility and diminish my pain. Yet, I was not anticipating the amount of pain involved. I always thought I had a high tolerance for pain and perhaps I do, but what is difficult is lasting pain over a series of weeks. Nevertheless, in the long run I am optimistic that it will be worth the challenge.

It is important to remember when dealing with arthritis that you don’t “cure” arthritis you manage it. Looking at it this way helps to make it more bearable and not as overwhelming. Any strides that are achieved, really make you feel more in control of your own well being, instead of silently suffering. It is also comforting to know that you are not alone.

Sources:

1) Arthritis Foundation

2) Arthritis- How to stay Active and Relieve your Pain.

Barbara Stokes & Antoine Helewa

3) Yoga for Arthritis-Loren Fisherman

4) Illinois Bone and Joint Institute (Orthopedic Specialists)


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5/11/2015

 

As my friend Jodie says ‘people are messy.’ Yep, this is true. This statement resonates true for me with relation to others as much as it does myself. A group of us talked about this subject several months ago and at the time I said, I will need to write a blog post about this truth. But as with many blogs, the idea comes on in a moment of clarity and then takes some time in reflection to ruminate.

This can be good sometimes, bad other times, or just neutral. Unfortunately, ‘people are messy’ came fully back to my mind on one BIG Messy Monday. On three separate occasions one Monday I came to understand how messy we can all be. The interesting thing about those three messy interactions was the following Friday follow-up from all three individuals. The debriefing continuum between all three people and myself was as far and wide as you can get.

I received a card, email, and letter on that Friday from the three individuals. One was filled with many more ways of misunderstanding, one was explaining the circumstances that made our interaction messy, and the other an apology with humor sprinkled throughout. It was clear which ones had a bridge to understanding.

I have a curiosity about our messiness. Is my messy the same as my husband’s or daughter’s? Does our messiness work with each other’s because we are in the same family unit and so it’s mitigated by our love and acceptance for each other? When things get messy with the store clerk, wait person, or another driver it is normally a fleeting moment in our lives. When it happens with a friend we have the opportunity to review the relationship and figure out if both people are adding to each others lives. Most often when it has happened within my family space it gives me an opportunity to remember our love and history.

At this stage in my life I value my time as precious, so in my reviews of messiness I get very clear about which direction I want to head and with whom. I believe the messiness in all three interactions, was messiness coming from all parties, coupled with layers of misunderstanding. I find in-person conversation the best way to clear things up. In these conversation all parties have the opportunity to explain out their actions, justifications, intentions, and questions while using all of our language both verbal and nonverbal. That said, many folks can be opposed to direct conflict, so conversations may not rank high on their list of possible options to resolve problems. I personally have rarely used the above mentioned card, email, or letter methods as they are reminiscent of the detached mean girls from my middle school and high school days.

As I reflect more on my messiness as well as other’s. I question how we can find complementary and balanced messiness. I plan to do my best to intentionally surround myself with the folks I want to be messy with.

How do you work through messy interactions with others? Can you do better in bridges of understanding? In what ways are you messy?


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5/11/2015

I recently had the treat of spending 10 days on the island of Bali, Indonesia. I was there for a Dancing for Birth retreat with a handful of other Dancing for Birth Instructors and Stephanie Larson, DFB’s founder. Many Balinese believe that Bali is the last step before reaching heaven. That can’t be far from the truth.

Feasting on organically grown food and bathing in outdoor showers was just an accent to the daily discussions and dance filled workshops we had everyday. Dancing for Birth uses dance to build confidence in pregnant and postpartum mothers and to support shorter, easier and safer births. Our daily workshops introduced us to a new palate of dances from around the world as well as nuggets of tried and true birth wisdom. For a doula, spending a week in an oxytocin induced birth high is about as close to heaven as one can get.

In the middle of our week we were welcomed for a tour of Bali’s famous birth center, Bumi Sehat, and a casual chat with her founder and CNN Hero of the Year, Ibu Robin Lim. According to Lim, it costs $400 - $600 to have a vaginal birth in Bali and $1,000 to $1,500 to have a Cesarean birth. The average monthly wage in Bali is $200. And, if a family can’t pay before time to leave the hospital, the baby stays, mostly unattended. Bumi Sehat provides free prenatal, birth services and basic medical care for families from all over Bali. On two occasions we told a cab driver where we were staying, by Bumi Sehat. They would immediately know where to take us and energetically tell us about precious sons and daughters who had been born there. What Bumi Sehat has coined as “Gentle Birth,” is making a difference in the lives of people all over the island who wouldn’t otherwise be able to pay and take home their babies.

Lim is a busy woman. She sat to tell us about the Italian doctor who came to Bumi Sehat as a PR stunt, but left changed. “He left an asshole, but came back (from Bali) a doula,” his staff told Lim when the doctor asked her to speak to every obstetrician and gynecologist at his hospital about delayed cord-clamping. As she told similar stories, she also tolds us that the baby who is crying is a day old and that his parents are still getting to know him. She waved to a long-time donor who was visiting. She directed a foreigner and his daughter to one of the local practitioners to see about an ear-ache. All this the day after she returned from The Philippines to check on a birth center there. I asked her how she does it all. She first credits her dedicated staff and friends and adds, “and I’m always high on oxytocin.”

The week after we left, of Orgasmic Birth and Pain to Pleasure was hosting a two-week long doula training in Bali. Women from the United States to China and everywhere inbetween attended this two-week workshop where they began their certification as doulas, childbirth educators and lactation consultants.

Amid ancient statues adorned with marigold garlands and banana leaf offerings, smiles and warm greetings from the Balinese and their healing touch received through massages and herbal scrubs, I kept wondering, why Bali? Why did these birthkeepers choose Bali? Why do they train future birthkeepers in Bali? I asked Stephanie Larson this question. Her immediate response was, “I think it’s the love here.” The after a moment she said, “There is so much music, dance, art and celebration. All of those are a part of birth.”

Yes, that’s it. The Balinese I spoke with loved life and their music, dance, art and celebration were testament of that. Of course Bali - who wouldn’t want to birth so close to heaven.

I have tremendous gratitude and respect for Stephanie, Robin and Debra and for all the work they have done as birth keepers. Please, continue bringing us to Bali and showing the world that birth is as beautiful as Bali.

Photos: Above - Ibu Robin Less (right) sharing birth wisdom with Stephanie Larson (middle) and other Dancing for Birth instructors. Below - Rice paddies in Bali

Lisa Marie is a birth doula, supporting and empowering women through the birth experience in Portland, Oregon. She teaches Dancing for Birth, a childbirth education and fitness combo class using bellydance, Latin and African dance to help mommas be more comfortable and confident in thier bodies through birth and beyond. One of her specialties includes supporting laboring mommas with Type 1 Diabetes.


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