When A Wild Animal Adopts A Human

| 7/7/2014 8:11:00 AM

I have previously written about us being adopted by a buck deer. How when he and his brother were still fawns while I was gathering limbs and clearing our lot his mother found me interesting and followed me around for most of the day. Always maintaining a distance of around 15 to 20 feet, but where I went she went and her two fawns were right there too. About how a few years later the two fawns returned as full grown bucks. How the one we called Junior came back year after year until one time he did not come back and we felt certain he had died of old age or other means. I could write about several interactions between myself and Junior but I will try not to be redundant and repeat any prior stories.


Wild Animals Showing Trust

Before every conservation officer, game warden or hunter who reads this becomes upset it is not about making a pet of a wild animal but instead about a human which a wild animal chose to befriend. From the very first time Junior returned he walked right up to me like he had known me his whole life and displayed total trust. It was a little daunting at first but slowly I gained trust in him as well. He would let me rub his nose and pick ice balls or ticks off him and if my clothes became caught on his antlers he would stand still while I un-hooked us. I’m sure those antlers can be deadly in certain cases but Junior never once showed the least bit of hostility toward me. He would actually make little mewing sounds when he was getting affection.

Non-Verbal Animal Communication

I have heard stories how buck deer are dangerous during the rut but Junior was never the least bit threatening to me. In fact, he would venture off to chase the ladies and be gone for several days and then would come back totally exhausted and lay down just outside the gate to our back yard to rest up. With us around, I’m sure he felt very safe there. Non verbal communication is just as accurate as verbal and maybe more so when it comes to seperate species communicating. Junior would stand outside the gate until he caught my attention and his non-verbal communication would be clear. He was going to lay down and rest for a few hours and wanted us to watch out for him while he recovered his energy. He would go so soundly asleep that we could come and go and walk around him while he was asleep and he wouldn’t move and didn’t seem to have a care in the world. He would sometimes open an eye to see who it was and go right back to sleep again. When he was finally rested sufficiently he would browse on the lush growth over the septic tank drain field and then off he would go and the cycle would repeat itself several times each year.

Deer Behavior

One year he was proving his manhood with his brother and broke off one of his antlers. The forlorn look on his face was obvious.. I don’t know if deer understand human talk or not but I would sit out with Junior for the next few days telling him he was still a powerful deer and his manhood was intact that he had just lost an antler. After a few days he began to perk up again and returned to his normal self and was once again in pursuit of a doe. Junior’s mother also stayed around for years too and demonstrated trust in us. His mother was a remarkable deer too as one time she showed up with rake marks on her body where she had survived a mountain lion attack. Another time coyotes attacked her fawn and we watched as she chased the coyote down and pounced squarely in the middle of its back. We watched her adopt a small fawn that had broken its leg somehow and she raised it as her own until it too was grown and on its own. The original mother had abandoned it and chased it off when it tried to keep up with her. We could always recognize Junior’s mother because of that scar on her side from the lion attack.

Strange Phenomena

In Junior’s case he would come back to hang out often with a group of other male deer. He would bring them around and initially they seemed confused and leery when he would walk right up to me like the old friend he actually was. Gradually they also seemed to accept our relationship of mutual trust. Next thing I knew I would be out in the yard with Junior along with his pals all standing around while I talked to them about various subjects, mostly how to watch out for hunters and poachers. They would watch intently and sometimes turn their head as if they really understood what I was saying. Once one of Junior’s pals showed up without Junior and I asked him where was Junior and why didn’t he go and get Junior because it was getting close to hunting season. He turned and walked away and three days later I looked out the window and here he came with Junior trailing behind him. Coincidence? Possibly but it sure was a strong coincidence. I can’t explain it but I know it happened and it was pretty amazing to witness. We hear of other people feeding deer and partially domesticating them but in our case it was the deer which for no reason we can fathom adopted and trusted us.

7/15/2014 6:27:33 AM

I read your story with interest. It seems that at times I have also been adopted by wild animals during the time I have spent on this planet. I don't hunt anymore though I use to. As i found out what it is like to be on the other side of the sights. I found that out when I went to Nam (67-68). But, I don't begrudge anyone out there hunting, it's a way of life to a lot of people. And, to a lot of people it's the only way to get meat on the table for themselves & their family.

7/14/2014 11:29:30 AM

The hunting experience always enthralled me. I never cared much for the killing part and never had anything but ill feelings toward those who exhibited taking pleasure from it, [I believe the more "gentlemanly" among the fraternity's ranks would agree with that summation], but I steeled myself to that part as simply the part that called for the necessity of the breaking of the egg in order to make the omelet; plus I am NOT a vegetarian and view anyone who objects to "clean kills" of wild animals yet eats animals as a hypocrite. Case in point.... "You have just dined, and however scrupulously the slaughterhouse is concealed in the graceful distance of miles, there is complicity." --- Ralph Waldo Emerson --- Yet, on occasion, and at my free will, I have passed up shots when I simply did not feel like killing. You can bet that ALL of those times my belly was full and so was my freezer. Thank you, Mr. McElmurry and Mother Earth News.

7/14/2014 7:41:45 AM

I certainly can relate to this story. On our farm over the years we have been "adopted" more then once by wildlife and not just deer. When we bought the place 17 years ago we were in the first couple of months adopted by a Raven who we named Merlin. Merlin also bonded with our cat Beatrice and was never far from where she was perched in a tree. Beatrice loved laying on her back to sleep by the greenhouse, in the garden, alongside the house foundation.... One afternoon Beatrice had joined me in the garden, I was weeding and she promptly rolled over and was sound asleep so I left her there when I came back to the house. Thru a window I saw a red tailed hawk circling over where I had last seen Beatrice and I knew I couldn't get to her fast enough to save her from the hawk. As the hawk was ready to strike my hero Merlin exploded out of a tree nearby and attacked the hawk about 50 feet up in the air directly above Beatrice saving her life in most likelihood. Merlin and Beatrice would go on to be friends for the next 14 years. Merlin came to say goodbye one morning, he was old. Beatrice passed away 6 weeks later. Both are dearly missed. Now we have 5 Ravens that I would like to think our the offspring of Merlin.

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