Living abroad in Thailand teaching English was where these former urban dwellers found the good life.
My wife, Pikun, and I had to travel halfway around the world before discovering the good life. However, while sitting here on our peaceful veranda in northern Thailand, I'm not a bit sorry we had to come so far to find so much! In fact, as I gaze out over the gentle stream flowing by me on the left or at the foothills of the Himalayas rising up on the right, I can hardly believe that we were ever hardcore, apartment-dwelling New Yorkers.
Back in those days we figured we had it made. We both had "good" jobs with "great" potential: I was a psychotherapist for the New York State Department of Mental Hygiene, and Pikun was employed in the diamond industry in midtown Manhattan. Still, despite our complacency, we were always wondering if our lives were really all they should be. After all, the only thing we actually had to look forward to was yet another nine-to-five day.
Fortunately, during that time I had the foresight to get my M.A. in teaching English as a foreign language. I figured that this degree would be a sure ticket to almost anywhere in the world, just in case we should ever want to abandon our urban lifestyle.
Well, we did leave ... over four years ago. And thanks to my teaching vocation, neither of us has had to work an eight-hour day since! Currently, Pikun, our two children (both born abroad), and I live on a quarter-acre of land in Chiengmai, Thailand. We eat fresh foods almost exclusively (everyone does over here), and we have plenty of time to enjoy our family life, the interesting places around us, and our many friendly neighbors.
The trick to living abroad is to have a salable skill. And a knowledge of English is just such a commodity, because it can lead to employment in many countries. Of course, in some places it does help to have credentials and experience, but in others — where the need for learning English is greater — practically anyone who can speak the language can land a job. For example, in Tokyo, Singapore, and Rio, some businessmen will pay upwards of $15 an hour to hire someone who'll just sit and talk to them in English! Even many universities in Asia, Africa, and South America hire Americans (regardless of experience) to teach courses part time.
The pay range for teaching English varies, of course, depending on who the employer happens to be. I was once offered $30,000 a year to work for a company in Saudi Arabia, but I turned it down because of the political situation in the country at the time. I have one friend who teaches 35 hours a week in Tokyo, and he brings home about $2,000 a month. Yet another friend prefers to take life a little easier, and she earns only enough money to cover her room and board.
All in all, just about every American I've run into who's been on an extended journey has paid for part of his or her way by teaching English at one time or another.
Living abroad has taught Pikun and me a lot about what's really important in life. It's given us, for example, time to enjoy nature and the company of family and friends. At the moment we're only renting our little homestead, because our future plans involve more traveling. (My wife is originally from Thailand; my father was Chinese, and my mother was a South Carolina farm girl. So I guess you could say we've got internationalism in our blood!) We may move to Japan or Fiji or even Brazil before finally returning to the States in time to put our youngsters (who are still toddlers) into school.
On the whole, we've found peace of mind here, as well as much-needed confidence in the fact that we really can lead simpler lives, and neither of us plans to ever go back to the city and full-time employment again. Perhaps we'll invest in a bit of land, settle down, and open up a home business. But that's in the future. Nowadays we live mostly in the present, looking forward to each moment as it comes to us.