I Want to Die

| 9/13/2013 12:06:00 PM

Tags: death and mortality, meaning of life, Kansas, Bryan Welch,

I want to die.

I am not miserable. I’m not even slightly depressed. I’m in no hurry, particularly, but I want to die. I want to die because I believe it is the superior alternative, in every way, to wanting NOT to die.

One of my goals is to make you want to die, too.

The sort of death I want will not be a defeat. I will not “succumb.” I will not “surrender.” I will die heroically, so that others may live. My individual light will fade. Millions of other lights will be ignited from the ember.

That’s the way life has always worked.

My death will be heroic, but not unique.

3/2/2016 12:07:39 AM

I was wondering Brian,Since your posting of this article in your blog ,has your feelings changed ? I don't even understand the reason you posted the article. Does this mean, you don't care about dying? Or you have just let the idea of it sink in and your just don't have any fear or worries about it? I really wanted to email you and chat with you personally but I have looked high and low for an email connection with no avail . I even went as far as to go to google to connect with you and still no email. I really don't understand your reluctance to have a email address available when you were the head of Mother Earth News and other organizations for many years and still are.Personally I am not sure what happen to Mother Earth Magazine. It is a far cry from what it used to be. I was one of the first people to subscribe to it many years ago. After years of enlightening articles and wonderful projects and etc.. then tiny magazine and not much of anything. I have years and years of the original magazines and still read them after all these years. Its great that at least I got to post here in your article to let you know that you have an old timer here, which still leads me back to the reason I posted here. I really don't understand the reason behind this post about dying nor does it seem finished. It just seems to fall off to nothing . It isn't complete and feels lacking. Is there anymore to the concept of not being afraid to die or that you want to die? Maybe I am dense but really don't understand what you are trying to say altogether. I know you have access to my email and if you would like to fill me in personally ,please do so. I would be really interested in finding out why you are ok with dying. There are so many people that are terrified of that subject. Take a look on the internet and see just how common it is that people are terrified. Maybe if you came out with just how you arrived at being ok with dying and shared it with all the billions of people that aren't ok with it, then it would help them ,instead of writing an incomplete article and expecting people to read between the lines.I respect you and mean no harm but still would like to know the details. I hope you see fit to email me with the answers.It would be greatly appreciated.

11/11/2013 7:15:00 PM

I don't want to die, I just don't want to live any longer. I don't want to kill myself, I just don't want to wake up any longer. But I keep waking up, so I have no other choice...

bryan welch
10/29/2013 1:41:34 PM

Amen, Vern, and thanks for the kind words and good suggestions, Epouna.

10/1/2013 8:14:31 PM

acording to the bible kjv ashes to ashes dust to dust we all were raised from the soil we live on as a man's day is numbered it is easy to live and die God bless us all that praise him

epouna berkana
9/30/2013 12:06:57 PM

Very well said! Just because one looks forward to the passing of the body doesn't mean you don't enjoy physical existence in the Present moment. I very much enjoy the present moments I live through, but this body is a temporary vessel that draws a lot of resources just to remain housed and fed - something that doesn't sit well with me. I would caution, however, to want to "triumph over" the ego. A better word might be transcend. To "triumph over" implies a battle - and to battle anything is to strengthen it. The ego IS a pariah, but in reality it's not going anywhere anytime soon. To give the ego judge-less attention is a better way to quiet its selfish ranting. Not eliminate, just reduce its volume considerably. @myladyalexis: Life cannot exist without death. Even a vegan must cut the broccoli from its roots, pull the carrot from the ground, and slice the cucumber for the salad, thus ending their lives. Why is ending the life of an animal more horrific than harvesting the fresh produce from a garden? It's also not reasonable to assume all animal slaughter is tortuous and cruel. Halal is the very old practice of dispatching animals in a humane and respectful manner. IMO I think respect is the key in recognizing the sacrifice any living thing makes to become our meal - animal or vegetable. In my own household I tell my kids that even if they're becoming full toward the end of the meal that they really need to finish any meat on their plates, as I point out that the cow/pig/chicken has sacrificed its life for us. Thanks, Bryan, for your insightful writing!

bryan welch
9/29/2013 7:17:06 AM

Jack, JACKM, it particularly bothers me that my body might be embalmed, making my body into pollution. Thanks for your note.

9/17/2013 11:12:17 PM

I'm with you, Bryan, though I suspect that precisely when I want to die will remain a moving target. When I was 16, I thought that 40 would be a good number, and yet here I am at 65, and paying more attention to my diet and exercise than I ever have. But my living will is pretty generous and when life sustaining measures are no longer appropriate I want organ harvesters standing by. At my age, this may be purely symbolic, as most of my organs are well past their sell-by date, but burn units can always us skin (it's not permanent, but it's better than bandages while good skin is growing back) and I seem to be covered with it. Our culture disposes of our bodies like garbage--either it gets incinerated, or it goes in a landfill, and urns and headstones don't change that basic truth. I'm a conservationist and I recycle what I can, and I'll be dipped if I'm going to give my body less respect than I'd give an empty pop bottle.

bryan welch
9/17/2013 4:39:00 PM

Thanks, Scott. My own perspective on raising and killing my own food: My natural pastures provide homes to thousands of species of living things. The plowed fields next door are virtually devoid of all life - except the plants raised there for human consumption. Every living thing exists at the expense of some other living thing, and we all depend on their sacrifice for our existence. I can't see anything immoral in that sacrifice, except of course if we exempt ourselves from the cycle. I raise and slaughter my animals in as humane a way as I can conceive. Someday I hope my body will be consumed by others. And the sadness I feel when I kill animals I've nurtured throughout their lives is a natural, poignant sadness I believe every person should feel as they contemplate the web of life.

9/17/2013 4:22:51 PM

It's somewhat reassuring to find that at least one individual has come to such a conclusion. As much of the population is no longer just surviving, but thriving, our numbers continue to grow exponentially with few hindrances. In the long term, it's ironically crucial to our own survival that our turnover rate increase. There's a reason for this grand cycle and I think there needs to be a balance between human well-being and the well-being of our ecosystem (which as I understand, many cultures consider the two to be one in the same). myladyalexis, while I do align my ideals to yours, I'd really hope to find someone with your awareness and compassion to be a bit more...compassionate. Our society forces us to make some wacky decisions to make our living. I sit at a computer all day; others raise and harvest meat. I'm not going to justify either and I can't say one is less wacky than the other; but I can say for damned sure that both are pretty wacked. So perhaps, alexis, we can all start a conversation instead of a flame war as Bryan seems to be no less rational than you or I. Thanks for your thoughts in this article, Bryan. It should at least get us all thinking a bit.

9/16/2013 10:42:42 PM

You haven't convinced me to want to die yet. And for the love of me I will never understand how any human being could just casually cut the throat of a baby lamb or wrench it so cruelly from it's mother without any compassion whatsoever. Humanity is heartless and for my part of living off the land does not include taking lives from the defenseless / voiceless who I'm sure also have a desire to LIVE LIFE!!!

bryan welch
9/15/2013 7:21:39 AM

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